Personally (and that’s all any of us can base this on, in the end), for my own state of mind I have decided to 1) not think much about death and 2) think when I do that it isn’t the complete end of some essence/spirit/soul of ours.
It’s a matter of how I’m best able to go through life, and whenever it comes, to face whatever death is. Because when you are at the end of your life, I think that your own state of mind is the most important thing. Who does it hurt to have someone on their deathbed believe they will continue on in some way?